"I just found out that the man I have been dating for 10 months has been in a relationship for 3 years!"
Love is truly an amazing thing to experience and be involved in, especially when you feel like nothing can come between the two of you... until something heartbreaking happens, that is.
The Fixer, which we do every Wednesday, is all about real-life stories and you, KZN, are needed to help us navigate the scenarios and problems presented to us.
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Today's story is a heartbreaking one, especially because of the dishonesty involved.
Pranusha recently discovered that the man she has been dating for the last 10 months has been with another woman for the last three years. She is now debating whether she should tell the girlfriend what her partner has been doing behind her back or to just move on and cut her loses...
'I just found out that the man I have been dating for 10 months has been in a relationship for 3 years!". This discovery happened via FB mind you. I confronted him and he did not deny it, when I ended things- he begged me to not tell his girlfriend because and I quote 'It will destroy her'. He had the nerve to tell me our relationship was more physical and his relationship with her is more emotional. They are allegedly planning on starting a family and getting married. I am done with this man- he disgusts me BUT I feel I owe the woman whom he is dating the truth.
It's bad enough that the love of your life doesn't love you anymore but he already has someone else that he seems to love more than he has ever loved you.
Pranusha is definitely in a sticky situation here because without a doubt her feelings were hurt and bruised, and now it seems she's also left to be alone.
Wishing Pranusha the best of luck with her decision.
Listen to the podcast below to hear what Pranusha has to say:
What should Pranusha do, would you want to know or be kept in the dark?
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