'I was secretly with his wife-to-be and now he wants me to be the best man!'

'I was secretly with his wife-to-be and now he wants me to be the best man!'

It's a brand new week and we have our new feature 'Balance Me' to bring to you. Friendships can be tricky at times, but would you be able to stand next to your best friend at his wedding knowing that you were once with his wife-to-be?

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On Wednesday, Bongani and Mags received an email from a listener.


Read: Balance Me: "My family want to charge me for their hospitality in December"

Hey Bongani and Mags,

I’ve been asked to be the Best Man at my friend’s wedding, but it’s really awkward because I was secretly with his wife while they were still together about a year ago. 

My conscience is killing me and I don’t know if I should just keep quiet and be the Best Man or make an excuse. Or maybe I should even come clean and tell him. Balance me, please.

Listen to the podcast to hear how KZN helped to balance the listener.

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